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I feel snubbed by the young millenials in my office. What’s a Baby Boomer to do? more

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Outwardly my father is charming. But beneath the affable exterior, he’s a heartless creep who was never there for us. Yet I continue to talk with him every few weeks as if he were a normal father. more

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I’m graduating from UW-Madison in the spring without any firm plans for the future, and had planned on moving back in with my parents for a while. Imagine my surprise when I visited one day to find my room converted to storage space. more

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He’s your classic strong, silent type, projecting toughness and a bit of mystery. There’s one exception — the bedroom. more

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I’ve been part of a wonderful circle of friends ever since my kids were little. We all live in the same Madison neighborhood and have children roughly the same age. It was an idyllic situation for me — until a new couple intruded on our happy group. more

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Until now, I’ve suffered in silence. But I’m considering my options in this #metoo moment. What can I do differently to reclaim my self-respect? more

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My husband started a new job about a year ago and formed a close bond with a female coworker. I was jealous, but I didn’t say anything because the friendship seemed harmless — at first. more

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My girlfriend is always in favor of throwing open our doors, and I’m not. Should I stick with my closed-door policy or open the door to others at the expense of my own peace of mind? more

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I was excited about my promotion, but now I’m worried about the sexual politics of a middle-aged man supervising two attractive young women. more

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Tell All: In my dreams, we’d go out for a drink on Valentine’s Day, open up to each other and fall madly in love. But my workplace crush is going nowhere. more

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I’m a male supporter of the #metoo movement, and I’m glad to see celebrity sexual abusers outed and punished. But the current turmoil in male-female relations is doing me no favors in the bedroom. more

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Tell All: I loathe the Super Bowl, which makes me a misfit in sports-crazy Wisconsin. more

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Almost all the Madison-area women I meet through Tinder are politically progressive, like me. But on a recent date I met a Trump supporter and still feel bad about what happened. more

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Tell All: my friends have turned their Twitter accounts into political bomb-launching platforms. I find it self-indulgent and self-aggrandizing. more

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Tell All: I’m a science teacher who’s finally found love, and she’s everything I’ve ever wanted. But I’m finding it harder and harder to ignore a quality in her I don’t like at all: a sincere belief in the supernatural. more

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Tell All: I want to roleplay some of the recent celebrity sexual harassment scenarios. Should I tell my feminist girlfriend? more

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Over the past year, my wife and I started discussing the possibility of actually doing some of the stuff we only talk about in bed. On Dec. 31, the make-believe will become reality. It both thrills and terrifies me. more

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Tell All: I hate Christmas presents. Getting gifts for kids is one thing, but there’s no joy in handing over presents to adults who don’t need them or care about them. more

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2017 is the most horrible year I’ve ever lived through, both for me personally and for the world. Almost every week I thought “This can’t get any worse.” Then it did. more

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I’ve been watching the recent round of sexual assault accusations and wondering if I’ll suffer the same fate — even though their alleged misdeeds are reprehensible and mine are not. more

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You can go home again! Just be prepared. Our advice columnist offers sneaky strategies for a stress-free holiday. more

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Texan threatened by request to take off his boots in the house. more

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Tell All: “Ugly Benny” needs to adjust attitude, not looks, to find happiness. more

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Woman’s lying husband is ruining her life. more

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Bathroom follies: What’s so bad about a bill that would divide kids by biological sex? more

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Man wants to date attractive, single soccer mom, but she transforms from Dr. Jekyll into Ms. Hyde at games. more

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Scott Walker foe can’t help but feel sorry for him over his sudden fall from grace. more

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Angry son asks how he can forgive the man who walked out on his mother. more

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A woman writes that her husband is threatened by Addyi, aka the “female Viagra.” more

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An east-sider is frustrated with friends’ smug support of presidential candidate and spoiler Bernie Sanders. more

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Tell All: A mother dreads empty-nest syndrome as daughter leaves for college. more

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Should woman galled by her ex-husband’s cheating ways tell friends about her ex-husband’s Ashley Madison account? more

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Man looking to settle down wants nothing to do with women with kids. more

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Presidential debate puts strain on father-son relationship. more

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Even though the Boy Scouts have dropped the ban on gays, Gov. Scott Walker still supports it. A father wants to know if he should let his son join. more

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In light of UW prof Sara Goldrick-Rabs’ recent tweets criticizing the UW and comparing Scott Walker to Hitler, Tell All sets some rules of the road for social media. more

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Graduate’s parents miffed over rude, deadbeat friends more

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Scott Walker’s developing a reputation as a braggart, and his use of the royal “we” seems to confirm that. more

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A reader is worried about his friend’s near-constant sexual activity with strangers. more

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A gay reader thinks straight friends are going overboard celebrating same-sex marriage, stealing the spotlight from gay community. more

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