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Joe Newton

Sure, when you get busy, kinkly cuckolding plans can get shoved aside. Or...is it intentional? Plus: Gaslighting during a breakup doesn’t do anybody any favors, this week in Savage Love.. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Could a sub be using BDSM as a form of harm reduction? How can a shy late-bloomer cope with sexual frustration? Dan Savage has the advice in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

This week Dan Savage tackles a bunch of shorter questions. Should one's SO delete NSFW photos of their ex? What about oil-based lubricants and condoms? That and more this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Respect the bottoms of this world, tops. Also: how to deal with a troubling voice on a phone-sex party line, this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Words of wisdom: People who are bad at monogamy don’t get better at it once they’re married. That and some biphobia, this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Blood in semen may be harmless, but see the doc. Reading the fine print in a dating profile? Mandatory. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Vanilla lover wants to be paid attention to by kink-obsessed hubby. What’s the obvious answer? Dan goes there in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

The hot guy on the bus is also a smoker. You don’t want to be the creepy guy who slips a note in his backpack offering him a very special smoking cessation program….do you? Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Intimacy-reluctant and sex-shy husband is manipulating wife so he doesn’t have to deal. And dating an escort isn’t all roses, this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Should a professor walk a thin line with regard to getting involved with students? Does an emotional affair do good or harm? This and more in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Hard truth: There are always going to be more people who want to get with Domme women than guys who want to get with/be serviced by submissive heterosuckual cross-dressers. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Dan Savage navigates the troubled waters of an ill-defined non-consensual-sex situation. Plus, several straight white men are in need of some dating advice, this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

This week, Dan Savage weighs in with a series of quickies. Get the good word on everything from picking to packing. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Two inveterate cheats fall in love via a hookup app. What could possibly go wrong? Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

How pervasive is the yearning for monogamy? What do you do with your dead loved one’s porn? And what’s wrong with a May-December Grindr match? Answers to all in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

Dan Savage was recently in Madison, as well as Chicago and Minneapolis. Here he answers questions he couldn’t get to at his live shows. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Is she seeing this guy? Or just servicing him? Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

A polyamorous perplexity. A cross-dressing papa.  And a foray into FinDom/FinSub Twitter. Questions asked, advice delivered, all  this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Dealing with teen’s sex drives is a touchy issue. Sometimes, it’s better to stay hands off. Some advice this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Is there such a thing as “too much” fisting? What are positive options for pegging? Find out this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

Sex advice columnist and kink guru Dan Savage won’t be in town for this year’s HUMP! Film Festival. And that’s making Savage jealous because he misses the town where he launched “Savage Love.” Read more

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Carolyn Fath

Dan Savage was in Madison when news broke about the mass shooting at an Orlando gay nightclub. He recorded this response at Isthmus on Monday. Read more

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Dan Savage started writing his advice column, Savage Love, in 1991 while still living in Madison. He returned to the city in early April and, while in town, stopped by Isthmus for a Q&A session with staff writer Dylan Brogan. Read more

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