Dan Savage
Joe Newton
Sissy that talk
Hard truth: There are always going to be more people who want to get with Domme women than guys who want to get with/be serviced by submissive heterosuckual cross-dressers. Read more
Joe Newton
The man show
Dan Savage navigates the troubled waters of an ill-defined non-consensual-sex situation. Plus, several straight white men are in need of some dating advice, this week in Savage Love. Read more
Quickies
This week, Dan Savage weighs in with a series of quickies. Get the good word on everything from picking to packing. Read more
Joe Newton
Cheaters club
Two inveterate cheats fall in love via a hookup app. What could possibly go wrong? Read more
Joe Newton
Standards
How pervasive is the yearning for monogamy? What do you do with your dead loved one’s porn? And what’s wrong with a May-December Grindr match? Answers to all in this week’s Savage Love. Read more
Three city swing
Dan Savage was recently in Madison, as well as Chicago and Minneapolis. Here he answers questions he couldn’t get to at his live shows. Read more
Joe Newton
Crossed off
A polyamorous perplexity. A cross-dressing papa. And a foray into FinDom/FinSub Twitter. Questions asked, advice delivered, all this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Boundaries
Dealing with teen’s sex drives is a touchy issue. Sometimes, it’s better to stay hands off. Some advice this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Open wide
Is there such a thing as “too much” fisting? What are positive options for pegging? Find out this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Physical ideal
You’re “pretty average,” you don’t fit your S.O.’s “ideal type,” he doesn’t want to have sex, and he follows a lot of “suicide girls” on Instagram. What’s up? Read more
Joe Newton
Come the revolution
Pleasure comes from taking control of what you need and when you need it. This week in Savage Love, Dan tackles the problem of selfish lovers and the psychology behind some kinks. Read more
Joe Newton
Quickies
Bukakke, unicorns, jizz and all that jazz, in this week’s “quickies” edition of Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Shrinkage
Does penis length diminish with age? Do guy orgasms get more intense as guys get older? These concerns and more this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Boundaries
Certain things are forgiveable in a newish relationship. This isn’t one of them. Dan talks transgressions this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Hard truths
Can a marriage survive when one partner wants BDSM and the other doesn’t> Dan Savage talks with Wednesday Martin Read more
Joe Newton
Fingering it out
In a relationship only somewhat kinky, what if the Dom wants a little partnered prostate play? That and more this week in Savage Love. Read more
Joe Newton
Deep cucks
Why cuckolding? Who knows what turns us on. This week in Savage Love, Dan talks with David Ley, a clinical psychologist, author, and sex researcher. Read more
Joe Newton
Quickies
Some dilemmas can be solved rather quickly, actually. Dan Savage deals with exes who are besties, boner pills and more this week in Savage Love. Read more
Prejudicial statements
Consider racial attitudes carefully when it comes to sexual stereotypes. And when it comes to a big-city-neighbor-open-windowshade flirtation, well, you never know until you ask. Read more
Real people, real sex
Sex advice columnist and kink guru Dan Savage won’t be in town for this year’s HUMP! Film Festival. And that’s making Savage jealous because he misses the town where he launched “Savage Love.” Read more
Carolyn Fath
“Let Pulse end tolerance for bigotry”
Dan Savage was in Madison when news broke about the mass shooting at an Orlando gay nightclub. He recorded this response at Isthmus on Monday. Read more
Dan Savage Q&A at Isthmus
Dan Savage started writing his advice column, Savage Love, in 1991 while still living in Madison. He returned to the city in early April and, while in town, stopped by Isthmus for a Q&A session with staff writer Dylan Brogan. Read more
