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How pervasive is the yearning for monogamy? What do you do with your dead loved one’s porn? And what’s wrong with a May-December Grindr match? Answers to all in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

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Dan Savage was recently in Madison, as well as Chicago and Minneapolis. Here he answers questions he couldn’t get to at his live shows. Read more

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Is she seeing this guy? Or just servicing him? Read more

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A polyamorous perplexity. A cross-dressing papa.  And a foray into FinDom/FinSub Twitter. Questions asked, advice delivered, all  this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Dealing with teen’s sex drives is a touchy issue. Sometimes, it’s better to stay hands off. Some advice this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Is there such a thing as “too much” fisting? What are positive options for pegging? Find out this week in Savage Love. Read more

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You’re “pretty average,” you don’t fit your S.O.’s “ideal type,” he doesn’t want to have sex, and he follows a lot of “suicide girls” on Instagram. What’s up? Read more

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Bukakke, unicorns, jizz and all that jazz, in this week’s “quickies” edition of Savage Love. Read more

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Does penis length diminish with age? Do guy orgasms get more intense as guys get older? These concerns and more this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Certain things are forgiveable in a newish relationship. This isn’t one of them. Dan talks transgressions this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Can a marriage survive when one partner wants BDSM and the other doesn’t> Dan Savage talks with Wednesday Martin Read more

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In a relationship only somewhat kinky, what if the Dom wants a little partnered prostate play? That and more this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Why cuckolding? Who knows what turns us on. This week in Savage Love, Dan talks with David Ley, a clinical psychologist, author, and sex researcher. Read more

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Some dilemmas can be solved rather quickly, actually. Dan Savage deals with exes who are besties, boner pills and more this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Consider racial attitudes carefully when it comes to sexual stereotypes. And when it comes to a big-city-neighbor-open-windowshade flirtation, well, you never know until you ask. Read more

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Local columnist Tell All has been reading your letters and dispensing advice for 10 years. He wraps up his last column with a look back. Read more

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Introverted, shy gay kinkster can’t seem to find his tribe. Dan Savage has some commonsense advice. Read more

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When you’ve reached a sexual impasse, it’s time to re-assess. Little play can present big quandaries. And there is a way to keep things shiny and new in a relationship. All is revealed, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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It’s a post-SESTA/FOSTA world. How does one find a reliable sex worker? Plus info on a used gym shoe query, and just who can deservedly shop at Mr. S Leather. Read more

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Dating, when your fetish is diapers. Dating a long-distance asshole, and whether one should listen to one’s mother’s advice on the topic, when there are Daddy issues. Read more

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