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Joe Newton

Prone male masturbators often have difficulty coming with PIV sex. Tips on how to retrain, this week in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Roles transform and a girlfriend wants to be more of a boyfriend to her boyfriend. A masc-presenting man seems straight but says he is queer and is attracted to women. That and more in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

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A former Lusty Lady dancer worries about her cam girl daughter. Should she clue her daughter in to what she found distressing about the job? this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Joe Newton

A willing partner is too willing to be polite about a disastrous threesome and a platonic friendship (really?) is at risk after a minor infidelity, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Sure, when you get busy, kinkly cuckolding plans can get shoved aside. Or...is it intentional? Plus: Gaslighting during a breakup doesn’t do anybody any favors, this week in Savage Love.. Read more

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Joe Newton

Could a sub be using BDSM as a form of harm reduction? How can a shy late-bloomer cope with sexual frustration? Dan Savage has the advice in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

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Joe Newton

This week Dan Savage tackles a bunch of shorter questions. Should one's SO delete NSFW photos of their ex? What about oil-based lubricants and condoms? That and more this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Respect the bottoms of this world, tops. Also: how to deal with a troubling voice on a phone-sex party line, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Joe Newton

Words of wisdom: People who are bad at monogamy don’t get better at it once they’re married. That and some biphobia, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Joe Newton

Blood in semen may be harmless, but see the doc. Reading the fine print in a dating profile? Mandatory. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Vanilla lover wants to be paid attention to by kink-obsessed hubby. What’s the obvious answer? Dan goes there in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

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The hot guy on the bus is also a smoker. You don’t want to be the creepy guy who slips a note in his backpack offering him a very special smoking cessation program….do you? Read more

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Joe Newton

Intimacy-reluctant and sex-shy husband is manipulating wife so he doesn’t have to deal. And dating an escort isn’t all roses, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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Joe Newton

Should a professor walk a thin line with regard to getting involved with students? Does an emotional affair do good or harm? This and more in Savage Love. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Hard truth: There are always going to be more people who want to get with Domme women than guys who want to get with/be serviced by submissive heterosuckual cross-dressers. Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Dan Savage navigates the troubled waters of an ill-defined non-consensual-sex situation. Plus, several straight white men are in need of some dating advice, this week in Savage Love. Read more

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This week, Dan Savage weighs in with a series of quickies. Get the good word on everything from picking to packing. Read more

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Joe Newton

Two inveterate cheats fall in love via a hookup app. What could possibly go wrong? Read more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

How pervasive is the yearning for monogamy? What do you do with your dead loved one’s porn? And what’s wrong with a May-December Grindr match? Answers to all in this week’s Savage Love. Read more

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Dan Savage was recently in Madison, as well as Chicago and Minneapolis. Here he answers questions he couldn’t get to at his live shows. Read more

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