Savage Love


Joe Newton

Maybe he just doesn’t know what love feels like. more

Mar 14, 2018 4:00 PM Savage Love


Joe Newton

We all have different porn preferences, and that’s okay. So long as we seek out other consenting adults who respect us and our bodies, we can have our kinks and our self-acceptance and self-esteem, too. more

Mar 7, 2018 4:00 PM Savage Love


Joe Newton

Some quick q & a’s this week in Savage Love. Bottom line: keep Dad out of your Instagram account. more

Feb 28, 2018 4:00 PM Savage Love


Joe Newton

What if your bi- boyfriend is actually gay? Well maybe don’t worry about it too much….but his undersized testicles could be a medical problem. This week in Savage Love, Dan recommends the medical establishment. more

Feb 21, 2018 4:00 PM Savage Love

Dan Savage started writing his advice column, Savage Love, in 1991 while still living in Madison. He returned to the city in early April and, while in town, stopped by Isthmus for a Q&A session with staff writer Dylan Brogan. more

Apr 13, 2016 9:40 AM Savage Love


LaRae Lobdell

It was supposed to be for "shits and giggles," mocking the mores of the time. A sex advice column written by a gay man who treated straight sex with the same revulsion straight people had for gay sex. more

Dec 4, 2014 2:00 PM Isthmus Cover Stories