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Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Is a straight guy taking advantage of his gay pal by accepting freebie BJs? This week’s Savage Love gets to the root of the problem. more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Sexy texting does not equal micro-infidelities. Drunken booty-calls are to be avoided. And even more advice this week in Savage Love. more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Although adult baby husband laid his kink cards on the table before marriage, his wife Dan gets to the bottom of it this week in Savage Love. more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Q: When are jokes inappropriate? A: When you are peeing on someone. This week in Savage Love. more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Epic hits from Dan Savage’s recent appearance at Denver’s Oriental Theater. Among them: Do you need a reason to be monogamous, how clean does a bottom have to be, resources for better oral sex and more. more

Savage Love

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Joe Newton

Is the Texas Catheter the cause of a bent penis? Is there sex after SSRIs? How does one cope after an HIV diagnosis? more

Savage Love

Dan Savage started writing his advice column, Savage Love, in 1991 while still living in Madison. He returned to the city in early April and, while in town, stopped by Isthmus for a Q&A session with staff writer Dylan Brogan. more

Savage Love

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LaRae Lobdell

It was supposed to be for "shits and giggles," mocking the mores of the time. A sex advice column written by a gay man who treated straight sex with the same revulsion straight people had for gay sex. more

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